So you have separated from your spouse and have decided to get a divorce. Have you considered family mediation as an option? You may also have thoughts of “what is family mediation” and “why should I use it?” Here is some information about family mediation and why it is so important.
What Is Family Mediation?
The term is known as “Family Mediation” involves the act of your former wife or husband and you sitting down together with a third-party who is an independent Family Mediator to assist both of you in deciding what will be right in regards to your family and yourself in terms of the arrangements of your finances or/and children.
Communication regarding these matters can be difficult and in some cases very emotional. In the past, you would probably have used your lawyer, and your spouse has used their lawyer. Both lawyers make money out of the both of you in the way of sending correspondence forwards and backwards to one another in regards to your instructions.
In some cases, you will probably not have to see your former spouse in these processes. However, these types of processes do not assist either party in building the best new relationship when it comes to co-parenting. This typically builds up resentment and anger on both sides.
Now it is important to know that Family Mediation is not suitable for everyone. For example, if you were the victim of domestic violence, then family mediation is not suitable for your case. Family mediation is suitable if you can come to a place that you may be able to talk with the person you are about to divorce even when you may not feel up to talking to this individual.
Here are some of the benefits associated with the right type of family mediation:
- You are in control over the entire process
- You are entitled to decide what you want to and what you are not prepared to talk about
- You maintain communication with your ex, which is especially important when you have had children together
- It can save you on a lot of time and money
- This process can assist you in moving forward in regards to the emotions associated with separation or divorce in an environment that is supportive
- Family mediation is always kept confidential
Keep in mind that a family mediation is regarded as voluntary, which means you are never forced into it. In many countries across the world as well as in the U.S., family mediations are viewed as a method to move forward for many people.
The act of having to attend court to work out disputes that have arisen from a separation or divorce is in most cases a very stressful process to go through. Family mediation happens to be one of the viable options to consider in regards to coming to important agreements in association to extremely important issues that involve finances and children.